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Sexuality: straight, bisexual, lesbian or gay?

What you should know

One in ten people are attracted to people of the same sex or both sexes. Don't feel like you're alone if you're trying to work out your sexuality. Most people at some point in their life fancy someone of the same sex. Finding someone attractive does not mean you are gay; these feelings are just part of natural sexual development.

It is important that you allow time for these feelings to develop and that you don't label yourself too early. It is okay to be unsure or to change your mind.

Remember, you are the same person regardless of your sexuality.

What can you do

  • If you have any doubts about your sexuality, the best thing to do is give your feelings time to develop.
  • If you know someone is in the same situation as you, or you have a friend you know you can trust, talk to them about how you feel.
  • Just listening to yourself explain your feelings might make things clearer.
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